A girl asked me out and I said yes to not hurt her feelings. What should I do?
Question asked by: knowitall
Whilst it was nice of you not to turn her down so as not to hurt her feelings in the long run this might be a bad idea.
If you start going out then she has more chance to like you and might fall for you further.
Then when you do end it when you meet someone else that you want to go out with then she is going to be more hurt.
Therefore best to be honest up front and tell her that you aren't interested.
Do it in a nicer way than that of course but that's the key message!
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I think you should tell her you don't really want to go out maybe even in a text if you think thats better.
Girls don't really mind if a boy tells the truth as long as he tells her the truth and she doesn't find out later on and get really hurt by it.
By: hannah123
Date of comment: Thu, Mar 20th 2008
By: hannah123
Date of comment: Thu, Mar 20th 2008
You should be honest to her but in such a way which should hurt her.
By: andamansiv
Date of comment: Fri, Feb 15th 2008
By: andamansiv
Date of comment: Fri, Feb 15th 2008
Tell her. The sooner you end it, the sooner she will get over you.
By: Alexar23
Date of comment: Tue, Dec 4th 2007
By: Alexar23
Date of comment: Tue, Dec 4th 2007
I think that you should be honest with her. Tell her the truth
By: Ashley
Date of comment: Tue, May 2nd 2006
By: Ashley
Date of comment: Tue, May 2nd 2006
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