Questions Steph Curtis has Answered:
I asked out this boy I really like and he said no. the thing is he looked at me all the time in the begginning of the school year. what should I do?does he really like me?It sounds like this boy either doesnt like you the same way or he has a reason why he said no. reasons for no - Embarassed not ready for a girlfriend he has one When you say he looks at you... signs he likes you in looking - If you are in a group of people and he only focuses on you When he is doing something funny to show off to his mates (or even you) he checks to see if you are looking. My tips for you - become good friends with him and dont mention you like him or anything to do with going out. Give it some time so he realises how nice you are. Ask him for his number and if he gives it to you then thats a sign he is ok with hanging around with you. After a while try asking him whether he thinks of you as more as a friend but dont say you like him. If he says no then just say "good because someone said you liked me and i didnt know if it was true" and if he says yes brilliant Things to remember - Dont get a friend to ask him out Dont ask him in front of someone else get him on his own Dont push him too far or make him feel uncomfortable Dont get too worried about it either because i am having similar problems but i havent asked the guy out yet. GOOD LUCK! steph x
There is this guy that i really like and he is shy. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said I dont know and looked down. I dont know what that means! We talk a lot and joke around but I'm so confused. What should I do?
It sounds like this guy really is into you, he just doesnt like showing his emotions. Dont get a friend to ask him, you might scare him away. Ask him yourself really nicely, if he shows signs of shyness, let him know privately that you like him, and that might give him a place to start. Good luck
I liked a shy guy and he liked me but ipushed and he backed off how do i get him back
Aahhh now this is a common problem. Shy boys especially back off easily. The best way to get him back would be to get him to one side and talk it out with him. Tell him that you didnt mean to push him into anything and that you really like him etc. If he still doesnt want anything to do with you, just let him go, there are plenty of other guys around. Life moves on. good luck x
Okay, this may be a long one.. So there's this guy i've liked since year 9, (year 10 now) and his best friend fancied (possibly still does) me in year 9, but recently he was a bit out of it, not majorly drunk, just a bit off his head, and he said he fancied me, he saved his convos 'to make sure he didnt say anything stupid', and then a couple of days after i asked if he'd said anything stupid/he didnt mean, and he said no, so i said what not even to me? and he said no, so i said are you sure? and he said yes. then later that day this girl lizzie asked me if i liked anyone atm, so i was like nah. then later still she said he was upset because apparently the girl that he likes don't like him, so i asked him if he was okay or wanted to talk about it, and he got kinda annoyed and was like i'm gonna kill her, and i said please don't tell her, she'll kill me! so he said dont worry i'll defend you. g2g xx and went offline.. does he like me? or not..? Incredibly confused. xx
Ok its hard to answer this as i am not sure how to remember the question but i am also very confused. Could you try and resend it but word it a bit differently and make it more clear?
You see, there are these 2 boys who had a huge crush on me and i didnt like them back. i got a bit angry with them and told them to leave me alone (because they're always following me)Then they got annoyed with me and told me that they give up on chasing girls, now they totally ignore me and im kinda sad. they always say, you never realize what you've got untill its gone. and now that they dont like me i am starting to miss them and like them. . . PLEASE help. i would appreciate it.
I think you'll find your only liking them because they liked you, and you actually secretly liked being liked by two guys. but there's going to be so many guys who will like you, even ones you'll like back. So i wouldn't worry about it too much :)
There is this guy I've liked since the beginning of the school year and it's midway through second semester. We dated for a bit but I was still hung over a guy who i dated before so being fair to him I broke up with him saying that I need time to fix this. When I got over the guy, the guy I like was constantly flirting with me, but a couple of weeks later he started flirting with my 'friend'. One day when he was flirting with me, he was constantly talking to her so i straight out asked him if he liked her and he said yes. So now I don't know what to do because she is using him for her own benefit because she doesn't like him at all. He really wants to go out with her, but he also wants to be with me. So what should I do about this? PS. Sorry this is so long
That is definately one confusing problem. i had a similar problem myself, although it was my ex boyfriend who started flirting with all my mates to get at me. If your friend is using this guy, then honestly, i wouldn't say anything, she'll eventually end it if she's not into him and when it does finish then he'll be available :)
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Umm there is this one guy in my year he started liking me.So recently his best friend who i have known since yr7 (currently now in yr 11) has started acting werid around me such as not being able to keep eye contact with me , hardly speaking 2 me sometimes or respond with yes or no answers. then he sometimes begins talking to me randomly , call me funny nicknames , making me laugh . so now im just confused with him
By: jade.x
Date of comment: Wed, Mar 31st 2010
By: jade.x
Date of comment: Wed, Mar 31st 2010
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