Kissing - more than just the kiss...
Kissing. Something that virtually everyone does at some stage, but can be nerve wracking the first time or if you are not very experienced and believe that the person you will be sharing the kiss with is an expert kisser!
The key element to the kiss is to go in confident and prepared. Preparation comes in the form of ensuring that you haven't just eaten a garlic pizza for instance, or if you have that your teeth are clean and smelling minty fresh.
Having something like a pack of polo or other quality mints in your back pocket at all times means that you can have appealing or at least not unappealing breath at all times, this is a good move if you want a good and memorable kiss.
Of course be sure that you do swallow the mint first before going for the kiss, they won't be best pleased if they go in for a kiss and end up getting half a mint in their mouth, that would certainly be getting more than they bargained for!
Remember to try not to be nervous but to know what you are doing. Therefore be sure that when you want a kiss you simply go for it. If you get rejected, then so what? At least you tried, and when the other person reciprocates, which one day they will, then you will find that it can be a great kiss.
A lot of kissing is about the lips rather than the tongues which have become the subject of too much focus due to sloppy romantic comedies and so on, but the lips are actually the key to the kiss.
You should be sure that you don't bump knock the nose of the other person, if they wear glasses be particularly careful that they do not get in the way. The best way to avoid this is to ensure that you turn your head slightly at an angle rather than directly opposite them, this will also give a good angle to get in and kiss their kips gently.
When you are in the kiss, you can change some things subtly. For instance you can change the pressure that you apply - though obviously don't use so much pressure as to hurt the person that you are kissing. You might also decide to change the rhythym and so on as you kiss, or open your mouth a little more or a little less, it is really up to you.
And that's it - the basis of a good kiss. Not scary and not difficult.
Also remember that different people prefer different types of kiss, and therefore if you are with a new partner then be prepared for things to change or for them to like a slightly different style of kiss to that you may have used with previous partners.
[More Categories] Questions Sally has Answered: What do u do if ur partner wants tounge but ur not ready? What do u do? What do u say?
Just be honest!
Good relationships are all about good communication between the partners in the relationship, therefore if you don't feel ready for something then say so else it will only lead to resentment if you go along with it and feel coerced into doing so.
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Date of comment: Sat, Dec 27th 2008
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