I could really use some advice

There this girl i like, but i hadnt told her how i felt i was waiting till we where in person. I was asking a friend for some advice, well she went and told the girl that I liked her. I was pushed into telling her how I felt. She asked me to take it slow and we would see where things went. Well since i told her we have gone from talking for hours to, only talking for mabey 30 min and she doesnt say good bye or anything any more its just shes gone. I dont know whats going on.

Re : I could really use some advice

If you ve been friends with the girl u like for quite a while, she may be a bit kinda freaked out u like her cause yr gd mates. With her saying 'let's take it slow' that's a very vague answer and can be interpreted in quite a few ways, she's really giving you mixed messages here. As a girl myself I think before u asked her out u two were gd mates , and seeing you as a boyfriend instead of just a friend is confusing her as she's seeing you in a different light. Also, u two going out she thinks will probably affect your friendship. Which it will. You do need a definite answer though, as you need to know where u stand. You need to press her for one; text, email, talk to her mate, call. Cause if you don't it ll really get to you, take it slow isn't good enough. You need a yes or a no. Just bear this in mind before asking her again, is her being your friend worth more than her being your girlfriend? Hope this helped.

Re : I could really use some advice

U screwed up wen you told her u liked her. U should hav allowed her to tell u. But if she is really the one for u, she wil definitely come back. Just leave her for some few days to think abt it.