Gaining Confidence: Let It Go
Self Development : Confidence The biggest hurdle to confidence is ourselves. Specifically, it is the part of ourselves that attaches FAR too much importance to the perceptions that other people have of ourselves - what they think of us. We will actively try to change and adapt to be the person you think others might want you to be, but why should you do this? When you think about it, that's not even logical - as it means you are trying to become someone else. Therefore the biggest single boost you can give to yourself is to "let it go" - all those assumptions and thoughts about what others may or may not think of you in their head - just let it go. That's their problem, if it is a problem at all - and remember you may often get their true perception of you wrong.
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