How To Know If You Are In Love
| Relationships : Love It is a funny thing but people often wonder if they are in love or not. Sure, they might tell their partner that they love them if they feel pressured into it, but in those quiet moments, they wonder if they really are in love. For some it is automatic and obvious, quite intense, everything clicks and feels right and they know they are with the person that they want to be with forever. Others will be unsure and this can lead to relationship problems as they wonder how strong their love is, whether they have had different feelings before, if it will grow in time, how reasonable it is to expect to fall head over heels in love with someone and so many other related, confusing but justifiable questions. The bottom line is that emotions are confusing and sometimes it is not clear cut. And the most annoying thing is people tend to say you either know that you are in love, and if you don't know you are in love, then that means that you aren't! It is important to remember that having strong feelings may be feelings of lust rather than love which is all encompassing and enduring and is to do with everything to do with the person, not just a physical attraction. A good way to see how strong your feelings are is to imagine what you would do if you WEREN'T with them - would it feel painful and difficult, would you be sad, would you know what to do? If that seems an awful thought and you couldn't imagine being without them, then that seems like a strong sign that love might be on the cards indeed!
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