How To Talk With Confidence
|Self Development : Confidence|
It is a trait of people who lack confidence that their speech shows this up.
This means that they will use negative and self-deprecating language, that puts themselves down.
Always resist the temptation to do this - it makes you seem as though you really are the unconfident person.
Therefore always use positive sounding and upbeat language rather than putting yourself down, which sends mental clues to the other party that it is OK to put you down and that you conform to the put downs that you have received, which is the last thing that you want to be the case of course.
Questions about public speaking: