My school mate

I am 17yrs old guy with respect for Everyone THE ONE AND ONLY,HYDRAGRUM 500 ALSO KNOWN AS RAYMOND. I have loved a girl in my class in high school who is so cute i don't love her because of her body or her looks but i would love to marry her and be the mother of my kids as well.i am a boy of shy type we both play sometimes, i have never exposed any of her private part like breast,butt etc. i always want to see her every morning and because of this i don't want to miss school. i love her and i will still do love her but i don't know if she also feel the same for me. i don't love her only because of sex but always want to be close to her, we always had argument every day and i don't understand that. she normally cause trouble to me, we laugh together share everything together, she sometimes ask of money which i don't like her asking me because i don't want her to like me because of my money. she is a type of shy person and feels shy talking to me at first point. i always want to ask her why she don't want to talk to me but my friend advised me not ask her because there is no answer to that.
One of my best friend have lot of money than i do, so my friend mean while is interested in her. he love playing with her and because of this i always think his money can win her heart. and that makes me feel jealous but if she see's me watching them she tried to do something as if she don't like what my friend is doing. i tried to be attracted to her but its seems that even worst, what am doing is pushing me away from her,we both found it very difficult to talk to each other.
I once had a dream about her and that was in the class room,the school was closed and we were on our way back home when i intentionally asked her that would she love if i am her boy friend?she deliberately answered me yes, yes, yes with loud voice so she also threw the same question if i would love her to be the woman of my dream, i answered of cause why won't i?so in my dream one of the girls who was sitting by me, sat with me when i saw that she was jealous. the nest day when i came to school that same girl always sit together with me.i began to think that the dream that i had is coming true i didn't understand it. she greeted me that morning and that was the first time i received her greetings, i pretended as if i didn't heard what she was saying so i asked her again what she was saying and she told me she was greeting me but pretended i didn't heard what she said. i was wondering if she also had the same dream,one of her friend, one day intentionally pushed me on stairs when i was on my way back home she said to me that can't i see?instead of me asking her i didn't mind her i tried to move away when she insulted me that people should look at my head like the girl i am in love with. no one knew about this, at that moment i was thinking that maybe she was the one who told her something about me.her friend and i had been dated before but we are no more longer dating again.now i am trying to look more decent guy to attract her but that changes nothing. she don't look at me regularly.
i would need some one's advice.PLEASE HELP ME....."

Re : My school mate

This sounds a tricky situation.

so many people try to guess and work out what someone else is or isn't thinking... sometimes the only way to know for sure is to ask them the question outright about whether they see you as a friend or something more and just hope for the answer that you want!

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Well i should say today am not happy because my friend did something very unforgivable there is a special occcasion that our school celebrate every year and its time to celebrate it and that is yesterday 9th on wenesday unfortunately my friend told the girl i really adore soo much i love her and i have plans for our future when i was not around went to see some friends of mine he said the gilr told him that i am not her type of girl and i am a small boy for her even if she give her me her friend she will not like me and that she has nothing to do with me so she can't take me as a boy friend so my friend asked her that i am not a man or a woman being?she told him i am but i am too small for her and she can't take me with her outside and when my friend told me this i became very annoyed and plan never talk with her again.so just today when i was in school eating when she came i pretended like no was around and i did't look at her face so this was really uncontrolable for her which makes her asked me didn't i saw her? why didn't i look at her?i kept quiet and refused to talk and she didn't mind that she then went to classroom amnd come back again and said we should go to spots stedium where waree celebrating the event i ask her with who?to where?so she bacame angry and decided to walk alone to that place when one of my friend ask me to go there with him whiles we are walking i decided to take a taxi and in my mind i know she will said she want to enter then that moment i will tell her not to enter i hired a taxi when i saw her shouting calling my name with her brother i let her enter the taxi with her brother because my friend beg me to let her.in the taxi she tried to talk to me but i didn't say a word until we rech the place we want to go when i bought a ticket from her brother and left the change with him so we all went inside for about 4hrs later she was asking for money to buy food and didn't get the money she then ask my friend who told her i love her to give her money unfortunately he don't have money so told her i have the money so she should ask me and see lol she told my friend not to ask me for that. i don't know what she thinks so i was sitting with a lady when her friend said she want to have a word with me at that time i though she is going to say something very important deliberately she ask me to give her money i told her i don't have the money but she didn't believe me so i told her to wait am coming at that time i truly know that she want to give the money to her.and that what i don't like. i didn't give her the money so i left her there waited.am not trying to be greedy i just want her to know that the insult she said to me has hurt and pain me alot
i just want to know what does she think right now???

so now am seriously need some ones advise..
Or you can email me through yahoo prosper_seidu@yahoo.com

Re : My school mate

:S that sounds too complicated for me to even fully understand what is going on.

I don't think I can give any help.

Maybe you should talk to a counsellor or professional about the situation as it sounds really complicated and that it is really worrying you and affecting you :S

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Now we don't talk to each other again and its left with about 3weeks more to finish the school and we won't see each other again.
someone should help me with his/her advise please...

Re : My school mate

Now we don't talk to each other again and its left with about 3weeks more to finish the school and we won't see each other again.
someone should help me with his/her advise please...

Re : My school mate

Just text her or email her and ask what is going on!

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Just Today went she came to school she called me in which i was not expecting her to call me because i though she was angry with me but today my friend told her am using her name and sir name too on the net for scamming people and that i have plan to snap a pic of her for scam.its true that i use her name to create yahoo id because she asked me to create yahoo mail for her when our class teacher ask us to create yahoo mail.so when my friend told her that she became angry with me and she told some of her friends about that in which one of them asked me if that what i have plan?? so what do you think is in her mind?? she don't know how to browse on the net so she don't have email or even a cell phone.

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This all sounds quite complicated.

You really need to sit down calmly just the two of you somewhere quiet where you won't be disturbed and work out what is going on between you because it sounds like the current situation is confusing you both.

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I just want to ask her out but am afraid because my friends have already told her and she will think that am not man of my own to tell her by my self

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I JUST wish I Could READ HER MIND AND KNOW WHAT SHE THINKS about so that I CAN KNOW HOW MUCH SHE HAVE FEELINGS FOR ME. HER FRIEND AND I ARE NOW Closed friends i know she would get JEALOUS BECAUSE SHE DON'T WANT TO SEE ME WITH GIRLS AND IF THAT HAPPENS SHE SOME TIMES Tells ME AM A WOMANIZER IF SHE SEES ME WITH LADIES.SHE KEEPS GIVING ME ADVICE SOME TIMES FOR EXAMPLE: WHEN MY FRIENDS AND I RUN AWAY FROM SCHOOL BEFORE CLOSING TIME SHE KEEPS TELLING ME TO CHANGE MY CHARACTER INSTEAD OF WE ALL,SHE ONCE Told OUR CLASS TEACHER THAT I RUN AWAY FROM SCHOOL ANY TIME AND THAT HE SHOULD ADVICE ME.SHE ALSO TOLD ME THAT IF I RUN AWAY FROM SCHOOL AGAIN SHE would TELL our CLASS TEACHER.AM REALLY CONFUSE I DON'T KNOW WHY SHE keeps giving me advise,and also does THIS TO ME AND NOT ALL OF US????WHAT DOES SHE TAKE ME FOR????

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I have been adviced by my friends that i should not talk to her for about 2weeks and see what she will react so i did the same as i have been told now that we are not talking to each other, she can't even look at me so i took the situation to one of my friends and he also asked her why is she not talking to me?and she said i am the one who don't want to talk to her when ever she trys to watch me i pretend to look other way and dont want to look at her, so my friend told me to call her one day and talk to her eveything would work out.she also asked my friend if it was me who told him to come and ask her that why doesnt she talk to me? its been 2weeks now since we dont talk to each other,i dont want to be the one to talk to her first.last time she talked to me and noticed that am annoyed with her.she seems like she doesn't care about anything,and now that every body call her she is my girl friend she told one of her friends that one day she will call me ask me about that,i wonder what to tell her when she ask me because its left with about 1{one}week to go and we will not see each other as usual...Goooooood Luuuuuuuucccckkk I Neeeeeeeddd Heeeeelllllppppppp from you....

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Hey that sound very tricky situation you need to go to a counselor

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Well i would say am very happy today because just today i had the second dream about the girl am in love with and the dream was very persuade and wish all dreams come true.it was Saturday when i was washing in my house i saw her looking in the house whether many people is inside and when i saw her i came to her and ask what she was looking for and she said she is looking for someone(i wonder who show her my house because she only knows the direction)so i told her that person it not around so she went and sit outside to wait for the person,so my friend was there and he told me that she only came here because you she want to meet and see me i was that time busy washing so i decided to go out and fetch water and i took something for her so she can help me with that,she helped me fetch water finish,when my friend told me that she came because of me i told her to wait for me to finish washing and she waited for a long time i thought she might go at that time but she didn't when i came to her she said i let me waited for a long time and her mother might be looking for her,so i accompany her to her house. when we were going i asked her something and she started laughing,i told her i wanted to talk to her for a long time but she was being stubborn and she also said the same thing she want to talk to for a long time but doesn't know how to start it from.when we were talking together i put my right hand on her shoulder and she hold it firmly closer to her chicks and feeling me.her body was soo hot that i can feel the hotness of her.and also she was moving my hand closer to boobs i was soo embarrassed but did not say a word,she touched my face moving round and even saw something on my face and she removed it for me, we enjoyed romantic things together when we were about to get to their house i asked her to show me her mother and she said i should move straight forward i would see her sitting there and i did the same as she told me.i pass by and when watch her she gave me a kiss i also did the same for her.she was really wonderful and make me happy at that time,i wish she also had the same dream,as well as it will come true.

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We Are Now Vacated and am not sure we would see each other Again i know her house but i wouldn't be going there i only wish the Dream i Dreamed come true

am really pissed off today i need help pls...

Just today i wrote a letter for her by telling her that i love her and am wondering what would be my response is it going to be positive/negative??im really frastruated today because one of my friends want to get the girl of my dreams am really in love with on bed by next week and i need to prevents that before is too late.i can not bare watching them to have her she mean the world to me.the deal is that one of my friend who was convincing her that i love her is now doing that for my other friend who has more money and many girl friends having sex with them and leave them aside. just today i went to her house by my brother to see her by asking her the letter replyment in which i couldn't ask because i was feeling nervous and i bet she was too.so today they told me that they would go to her house tonight,something is telling me to let her know what they have plan to do,i really do know that the money they have been getting is not wealthy but filthy money and i wish she knows by now she has been advising me by them eg {they are bad friends so i shouldn't follow them} i love her so much and i won't like all her life to be controlled/exposed by them.its would really hurt me so much if i head or see that she had sex with them please any one with help??i need to take an action to prevent them but how would i do that??? i need the reply but how would i get my reply should i ask her about that?from the beginning i told her never show the letter any one i thought she will tell her friends about the letter i wrote to her but she did not which is making me trust her.its only between she and i.its been Two {2}weeks now since she received the letter but did not reply by now..

Re : My school mate

Your problem is simple. And it isn't complicated at all. I wish I saw this earlier. Your friends re your problem. And the earlier you stop listening to them the better for you. Like you said your friend is interested in her. It might be dat dey don't want you to get her. Dey re competing wit you. And dey re winning. You've almost lost her. Just try this few things. Go to her house, ask her out. Be bold. Girls love guys who re bold. Tell her all your friends told you. Tell her everything you have in your mind. And ask her to tell you the same. Hope you get a good result.