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Please i need advice about this man ?

By: Am2011 [12-May-11 1:29PM]
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I have sending messages to a man on a dating website for 7 months ,he is very reserved .We send each other messages every day .But recently his messages have been strange saying ,if i didn't want to carry on messaging him he would understand ,last week i didn't email him back and he sent me another message saying didn't i get his email and if i didn't want to carry on sending messages.But this week he said if we wanted to talk on the website or on hotmail it would be ok ,but now he has denying he said it and i asked him does he want to message on website ?.His reply was keep on sending messages and if i want to find someone else who wants more than friendship ,he would understand .The thing that has made me confused why does he send me messages every day ,even 2 a day ?,seem interested in me ? he also said i'm a really nice person ? what does that mean ? sorry for the long message ,thanks

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Luanne1 [13-May-11 12:47PM]
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Maybe something has recently happened in his life to knock his self confidence? he sounds quite unsure of himself / what he wants. I think you should just ask him ' do u want our relationship to go further than just messages? ' and try and get a definitive answer from him. Hope this helps

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David101 [15-May-11 7:08AM]
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7 months is quite a long time. And it seems u re not showing 2 much interest. Well, he needs sumthing 4rm u and he is scared 2 ask just bcos of ur reaction. A man can't chat wit a lady 4 dat long witout thinkin abt sumthin else lik goin into a serious r/ship wit her.

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