How To Overcome Fear In Love
| Relationships : Love Fear in love can relate to two things. It can relate to fear of falling in love which is actually quite common, particularly with people who have fallen in love before and got hurt so are vulnerable. It also refers to a fear of finding love, as in a fear of asking people out, and this is just as common among men as women but it tends to focus on men as of course they traditionally do the asking out, though times are starting to gradually change there too! Now most people find that the difficulty comes with talking to people that they fancy and find attractive, rather than people who are just ordinary looking or simply off the radar for whatever reason, such as a good friend who happens to be attractive. So what you need to do is make yourself feel comfortable talking to these people that you find attractive, and the best way to do that is simple - practice. Try talking to some moderately attractive women at the bar or gym but NOT with any intention of getting their number or having an endgame. The nerves usually come in these conversations because in the back of your mind you are trying to work out how it is going and how long you should wait til you ask for their number. If you remove that distraction then suddenly you are free to concentrate and talk as normal and not get nervous in your conversation.
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